2007年12月7日 星期五

Loving Whatever You Do

I agree to that people should sometimes do things that they do not enjoy doing. Most of us have encountered something we are reluctant to deal with. We can hardly escape from our duties and flee from the forced work or obligation, though we would not like to do them or feel uncomfortable while doing the things. I think it is better for us to face the reality and finish the harsh and unpleasant work as soon as possible, and then we can entirely get rid of what we don’t like to do. Some people even have a comment of wisdom about how to solve this problem. That is, “love whatever you do.” In my opinion, this attitude can transform our unwillingness into positive thinking and bring a promise to the difficult conditions.

As children, we have to study and do our homework, though we would like to go out playing on the field and just have fun. As adults, we have to enter the society and take up lots of responsibilities, though some tasks are tough and we sometimes bite more than we can chew. As parents, we may have to feed the baby and change his or her diapers several times at midnight, though we are already worn out from work in the daytime. As employees, we have to endure all the assigned tasks and swallow our feelings towards some unfair or unreasonable treatments. As employers, we have to be decisive and responsible, and we sacrifice some of family time for earning more profits and making the company function well.

What may happen if we turn away and ignore what we should do? We might not get enough educated and well-developed. We might not be independent and accomplish things on our own. We might not take good care of our children. We might not keep our jobs, or maintain our enterprises. Therefore, we sometimes have to encourage or even force ourselves to do things we don’t enjoy doing in order to gain something beneficial. In this case, trying to change the mood and being calm, considerate, and rational can help. We can try not to react too extremely and to figure out some advantages in things we dislike. We might surprisingly find we don’t really detest the task so much. The situation is not as bad as what we imagine. Then, we can progressively find joy in the tasks to entertain ourselves, and we will not feel it’s so unbearable.

Doing things which we don’t enjoy doing can be a struggle. However, trying to love whatever we do and find enjoyment can make us feel more balanced and do the things well. Temporary endurance and positive reaction can result in good and satisfying consequences. Besides, we can better ourselves at the same time. Actually, we don’t lose anything at all, but gain more than we predict.

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